New kid on the block.

Hi to everyone. Unfortunately i met and fell for a Narc. FOrtunately I saw the signs early and started to detach after about 2 months ....fast forward 12 months later and here I am waiting for February first to come so this creep of a man can get off the couch and into his own apartment....I cannot believe how much I have lost myself in just over a year.....yesterday i was full of life and ready to move on....today i am almost obsessed over this situation and "finding him out"....:/ i used to be secure, confident, fun loving and I guess a little naive....At this point I am extremely suspicious of everyone and anyone way? Please tell me it does.