Two Narc together

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#1 Jan 6 - 9AM
ladylilly
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Two Narc together

I have recently had a thought. The new woman he is with is a N. She was married for 4 years, and a divorced person now. Owns her home, which was perfect for him, he has never grown up, the peter pan he is, never allowing the thought of ever attaining these types of things so he is a locust sucking up and leaving a mess behind. Ok sorry off topic, OW has a high powered position, is into fitness and self image, also has helped him write responses to our legal issues pertaining to our child. Well written material he could never produce. She is ruthless in her piercing words, trying to do his bidding which is totally fabricated and an illusion in his narc brain. Alll for his suppy from her. (I am very afraid for my daughter in this visitation situation with him, he will use her too, if they get more time with her via the court. But I believe he has struck gold in his quest for eternal supply with her. She has no children, and I think they are planning a family, since he has told me how verile he is. He told me he looked at me differently after our child came. The sex stopped at 6 months pregnant. I was really shocked at that and hurt. And my trauma began. I guess what I am trying to say is, I am so close to leaving this all behind, because of this forum and more and more knowledge. It is a path I wish I never walked down. Here is how we met. At a party at my gym, one I never wanted to attend, but at the behest of a friend chose to go. My friend the gym owner, called me over to introduce us. I said hi, shook his hand and started to walk away. He held onto my hand and pulled me back and hooked me completely. I wish I can forget that moment. It is frightening and disturbing to recall the moment I lost my life and myself to a low life sick individual. Keep on keepin on, and know there is a method to their madness everyday all day. take care of you, and your kids.

Jan 9 - 3PM
sallym
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Dr Sam Vaknin

Jan 9 - 11PM (Reply to #17)
Goldie
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Hi Sally

Jan 10 - 6PM (Reply to #18)
sallym
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Dr Sam

Jan 10 - 7PM (Reply to #19)
Goldie
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As I suspected

Jan 11 - 1PM (Reply to #24)
sallym
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Thank you Goldie for helping

Jan 11 - 10AM (Reply to #20)
ladylilly
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Can you explain projection to me,

Jan 11 - 12PM (Reply to #21)
Goldie
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Is there some particular reason

Jan 11 - 12PM (Reply to #22)
ladylilly
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I was just looking for you,

Jan 11 - 3PM (Reply to #23)
Goldie
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Here is the info on Goldie's Support Packages

Jan 9 - 5PM (Reply to #16)
ladylilly
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Yes it is a concept that doesnt sit well,

Jan 9 - 4PM (Reply to #8)
ItsFinallytime
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"Happily ever after" is a

Jan 11 - 2PM (Reply to #15)
sallym
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Dr Sam vankin/article

Jan 10 - 6PM (Reply to #10)
sallym
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Dr Sam vankin

Jan 10 - 7PM (Reply to #11)
ItsFinallytime
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A "stable and enduring

Jan 11 - 6AM (Reply to #12)
Lookforward
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Hi Sally,Ladylilly,Two years ago,

Jan 11 - 10AM (Reply to #13)
ladylilly
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Goodmorning,

Jan 11 - 11AM (Reply to #14)
Lookforward
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Hi Ladylilly,I mean don't we

Jan 9 - 5PM (Reply to #9)
ladylilly
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good response

Jan 6 - 9AM
spinning
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lady, there is no such thing

spinning

Jan 10 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
sallym
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Dr Sam vankin

Jan 6 - 11AM (Reply to #2)
ladylilly
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Thanks! but what is CD?

Jan 6 - 11AM (Reply to #3)
ladylilly
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And I want to

Jan 6 - 11AM (Reply to #4)
spinning
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Good for you for wanting

spinning

Jan 11 - 10AM (Reply to #5)
ladylilly
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CD is less frequent,