Duped and Brainwashed But 4 days No Contact

It's was a Sumer day in July, I was on my way to work on the bus . I was depressed because I had just broke up with my bf. So this younger guy kept checking me out and gave me his number. Why oh why did I ever call him! We dated the love bombing , great dinners and gifts started . Sex was great ! All things were so amazing as with any N, I signed for a car for him( what was I thinking ). I started seeing signs that I ignored and yes caught him cheating and I forgave him. The cycle stated all over agin , but then I realized every-time we had sex it was watching porn and one way. I was the greatest thing since slice bread ! Yeah right! Just a sucker who called me baby can you do this baby can you do this all with my stability and connections! Then the SEX stopped I was no longer sexy in his eyes. That was preserved for whores and other things , I found some crazy f&@@cked up porn, three months nooo sex! I started being the best private eye I could be and boy oh boy here I am now! I started reversing all I can as far as being connected to him. But the car cuz he did put cash into it but my NAME! Lady's just remember the reason you were chose dm because he saw in you what he lacks! I haven't cried yet just shut the door with no contact! But one of the reasons I haven't cried is because the intimacy stopped so in a strange way I guess it's helping! Good luck to you all and God Bless!