What to say on the spur of the moment?

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#1 Aug 11 - 6AM
Julialouisa
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What to say on the spur of the moment?

I am not reading texts or emails. He is backing off but he sits and waits for his opportunity. It's like playing chess and he takes his time and waits to pounce. Question is: If one day I am out shopping or walking, and he appears (from nowhere, as he does)and says something like "why aren't you at least responding to my texts?" or "whats up your nose?" ... how should I respond, because I know I don't owe him any explanation, but I'm not one to be a snob and ignore people. I want to hold my head high and respond in an adult way so he knows he hasn't ruffled my feathers, and to show him he doesn't affect me in any way. But what do I say to give this impression?

Aug 14 - 8AM
Lorraine
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Just ran I to me!

Aug 14 - 3PM (Reply to #37)
Done sourcing
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Flowers and !@#$

Aug 14 - 7PM (Reply to #38)
Julialouisa
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flowers and "bags"

Aug 14 - 9AM (Reply to #27)
Goldie
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Honestly, the issue does NOT so much lie in running into them

Aug 15 - 7AM (Reply to #29)
Lorraine
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Goldie - Thank you for that

Aug 15 - 10AM (Reply to #30)
sadderbutwiser
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Hi Lorraine

Aug 15 - 1PM (Reply to #31)
Lorraine
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Thank you Sadderbutwiser

Aug 15 - 1PM (Reply to #32)
sadderbutwiser
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no need to thank me

Aug 15 - 7PM (Reply to #36)
Julialouisa
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afraid of rage

Aug 15 - 2PM (Reply to #33)
Lorraine
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Nauseous

Aug 15 - 3PM (Reply to #34)
Done sourcing
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I think there was a movie out

Aug 15 - 8PM (Reply to #35)
Julialouisa
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Old wounds... Thanks DS

Aug 14 - 7PM (Reply to #28)
aurora
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So True Goldie

Aug 14 - 9AM (Reply to #26)
Willow
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Any attention is supply to an

Aug 13 - 11AM
Done sourcing
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If a stranger were texting

Aug 13 - 10AM
Lorraine
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I ended the relationship 10

Aug 12 - 9AM
Julialouisa
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Nearly got this right, but

Aug 12 - 2PM (Reply to #20)
ninibiza
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Response to nearly got this right, but....

Aug 12 - 7PM (Reply to #21)
Julialouisa
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texts and emails

Aug 12 - 7PM (Reply to #22)
ninibiza
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texts and emails

Aug 11 - 9AM
Hunter
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Response

Aug 11 - 7AM
Janie53
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Julialouisa

Aug 11 - 8AM (Reply to #2)
Julialouisa
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Janie.. so I get what you are

Aug 11 - 8AM (Reply to #3)
ItsFinallytime
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Yes, you pretend he is not

Aug 11 - 9AM (Reply to #4)
Julialouisa
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This is what I now understand

Aug 12 - 12PM (Reply to #17)
talktothehand
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Julialouisa

Aug 11 - 9AM (Reply to #5)
Used
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You're right... just ignore

Aug 11 - 9AM (Reply to #6)
Julialouisa
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Ok... one last question!!! ??

Aug 12 - 12PM (Reply to #16)
Willow
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"I'm not one to be a snob and

Aug 12 - 9AM (Reply to #15)
ninibiza
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Response to One last question