Why dont Narc's ever a question directly like we can ?

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#1 Aug 10 - 7AM
tigger27247
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Why dont Narc's ever a question directly like we can ?

I had a huge aha moment last night as i watched the movie The Holiday again last night on the television here in the UK.
When you ask a Narc a simple question... they can never seem to answer it at all... the answer that they come up with usually is another question for you or saying something that has nothing to do with what you asked them... or even worse.. their answer contains some blame projected at you !!

Can anyone help me with this...

Im a year out and doing really well , but there a few things i cant get my head around so i still feel quite blindfolded and i want to be able to see things as they are as it will help me move on...

Thanks x

Aug 10 - 9AM
Goldie
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It's called deflection

Aug 11 - 6AM (Reply to #15)
Luv2bme
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Confusion..,

Aug 10 - 9AM (Reply to #6)
tigger27247
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even if they tell you they cant lie?

Aug 10 - 2PM (Reply to #14)
Journey
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Anyone who says they 'can't'

Journey on...

Aug 10 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
Goldie
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Yes, it's a lie to tell you they don't lie

Aug 10 - 11AM (Reply to #8)
tigger27247
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This is so sad Goldie...

Aug 10 - 11AM (Reply to #9)
tigger27247
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also...

Aug 10 - 2PM (Reply to #10)
Goldie
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Please don't take offense to this

Aug 10 - 2PM (Reply to #11)
tigger27247
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Thank You Goldie

Aug 10 - 2PM (Reply to #12)
Goldie
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You are worth it, you are just as important as anyone else

Aug 10 - 4PM (Reply to #13)
tigger27247
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yes he is a lying bastard...

Aug 10 - 7AM
tigger27247
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typo

Aug 10 - 7AM (Reply to #2)
Fellforaclown
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They have brain disorder!

Aug 10 - 12PM (Reply to #3)
Ophelia Standin...
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This is MY biggest

Aug 10 - 1PM (Reply to #4)
tigger27247
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yes