I was love bombed for 10 years

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#1 Jul 20 - 10AM
Sallygirl
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I was love bombed for 10 years

Is that possible? Broke up with my N after 10 years about 6 weeks ago after he D and D me. I am learning a lot by reading through this website - thanks everyone. But I was trying to figure out the "how" of the manipulation in my case. I am beginning to understand "why I allowed it in my self" for 10 years - no filters - no healthy boundaries set up....seeing everything at face value. I was tidying the house and saw a recent card from N and decided to get all the other cards, etc. and throw them away. I found a folder of our first emails to each other and then every card he ever gave me. Geez, he loved bombed me till the end. Constant reassurance that I was the one. "I love you Iove you I love you" blah blah blah. Yes, there were many red flags. But I was constantly love bombed in between. The "crumbs" he threw my way were freaking loaves of bread! What I have learned is that I need to set a boundary to empty love bombs.

Jul 20 - 10AM
Goldie
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Of course it is possible

Jul 21 - 2AM (Reply to #2)
Pumpkin
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Right

Pumpkin