Was this a hoover?
Was this a hoover?
Hi everyone, I'm new and just wanted some input. I'm SO glad I found this place.
Okay, right after I just made 3 months of NC….he texted me saying he can't find something of his and think he left it over my place. He sounded sooooo friendly and prefaced the question with how are you doing, it's NAME (like I didn't know). I couldn't tell if he was trying to start a conversation or really just ask for his item. I just replied "Hey no sorry haven't seen it"
Then he responded saying "Dang. Ok. Thanks!!! ;) u been ok?" I did not respond at all. I don't feel too bad about breaking NC because I didn't let it go anywhere when he tried to turn it into a conversation. The last time I heard from him was 6 weeks ago when he sent me a bunch of texts blaming me for the end of our relationship but saying how he still misses and loves me. I didn't respond.
This text yesterday seemed different from his usual attempts so I wasn't sure if it was a hoover. I wonder if he really was looking for that item or was just trying to find an excuse to see if I would talk to him.
Almost the same thing happened to me . . .
Arie
Contact = Pain
Thank you for your advice.
You're not ready to be done.
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Was just about to say the
You guys hit it right on the
If you want to be where we are, do what we did.
Hi, welcome to the path
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I completely AGREE. During
Well, in my case it is a
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Very true. I just wonder what
In your words - you are still
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Thanks Journey
Exactly.. "JUST DO IT" Hunter
Hi arie, and welcome
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You're right. I should trust