Was this a hoover?

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#1 Apr 17 - 11AM
arie_xo
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Was this a hoover?

Hi everyone, I'm new and just wanted some input. I'm SO glad I found this place.

Okay, right after I just made 3 months of NC….he texted me saying he can't find something of his and think he left it over my place. He sounded sooooo friendly and prefaced the question with how are you doing, it's NAME (like I didn't know). I couldn't tell if he was trying to start a conversation or really just ask for his item. I just replied "Hey no sorry haven't seen it"

Then he responded saying "Dang. Ok. Thanks!!! ;) u been ok?" I did not respond at all. I don't feel too bad about breaking NC because I didn't let it go anywhere when he tried to turn it into a conversation. The last time I heard from him was 6 weeks ago when he sent me a bunch of texts blaming me for the end of our relationship but saying how he still misses and loves me. I didn't respond.

This text yesterday seemed different from his usual attempts so I wasn't sure if it was a hoover. I wonder if he really was looking for that item or was just trying to find an excuse to see if I would talk to him.

Apr 17 - 6PM
BlairoRoberto
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Almost the same thing happened to me . . .

Apr 17 - 12PM
talktothehand
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Arie

Apr 17 - 12PM
Hunter
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Contact = Pain

Apr 17 - 12PM (Reply to #11)
arie_xo
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Thank you for your advice.

Apr 17 - 2PM (Reply to #16)
Hunter
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You're not ready to be done.

Apr 17 - 1PM (Reply to #12)
talktothehand
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Blocking

Apr 17 - 2PM (Reply to #13)
Willow
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Was just about to say the

Apr 17 - 4PM (Reply to #14)
arie_xo
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You guys hit it right on the

Apr 17 - 7PM (Reply to #15)
ItsFinallytime
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If you want to be where we are, do what we did.

Apr 17 - 11AM
Journey
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Hi, welcome to the path

Journey on...

Apr 17 - 12PM (Reply to #4)
arie_xo
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I completely AGREE. During

Apr 17 - 3PM (Reply to #5)
Journey
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Well, in my case it is a

Journey on...

Apr 17 - 4PM (Reply to #6)
arie_xo
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Very true. I just wonder what

Apr 17 - 4PM (Reply to #7)
Journey
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In your words - you are still

Journey on...

Apr 19 - 12PM (Reply to #9)
shock and awe.some
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Thanks Journey

Apr 17 - 5PM (Reply to #8)
Hunter
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Exactly.. "JUST DO IT" Hunter

Apr 17 - 11AM
spinning
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Hi arie, and welcome

spinning

Apr 17 - 12PM (Reply to #2)
arie_xo
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You're right. I should trust