Happy One Year to Me!

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#1 Mar 21 - 9AM
MsFrenchie
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Happy One Year to Me!

March 21 of last year my XHN walked out on our marriage after 9 years. I was devastated and did anything I could to save our marriage. Lucky for me I'm glad he didn't take me back.

One year after I'm rolling. Anxiety free, panic attack free. There was a hoover in July, four months after he left. I took the bait and got hurt again, but that hurt determined me to block him, find The Path Forward and not look back starting NC in August 2013. I have maintained strong NC since 10/2/2013 (stupid divorce mediation) and am looking forward to the 18 month mark in September to re-evaluate where I am and what I can do better.

Thank you Hunter, Goldie, Spinning, Used, Journey, Pumpkin, DS and Janie. Your tough love keeps us motivated and pushing for better. No one deserves what we did, but no more victim card, that only works for so long. Time to keep moving on.

I can't thank you all enough, but I also thank him for discarding me and moving onto NS.

Best regards,
KC

Mar 22 - 4PM
Hunter
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Thanks for the visit and the

Mar 22 - 2PM
Journey
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Most excellent! Thank you

Journey on...

Mar 21 - 7PM
BlairoRoberto
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good stuff

Mar 21 - 6PM
Janie53
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KC

Mar 21 - 5PM
BlindNoMore
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I'm so glad to read this.

Mar 21 - 9AM
spinning
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Love this Miss Frenchie!

spinning

Mar 21 - 5PM (Reply to #2)
llong
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Congratulations!

Mar 21 - 5PM (Reply to #3)
MsFrenchie
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To be honest

Mar 21 - 5PM (Reply to #4)
llong
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Thank you. I guarantee you

Mar 21 - 6PM (Reply to #5)
MsFrenchie
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You did what you could

Mar 21 - 9PM (Reply to #12)
TDbfree
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MsF

Mar 22 - 9AM (Reply to #13)
MsFrenchie
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Karma will come

Mar 21 - 6PM (Reply to #6)
llong
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Thank you. It was a

Mar 21 - 6PM (Reply to #7)
llong
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My heart goes out to anyone

Mar 22 - 9AM (Reply to #10)
MsFrenchie
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You are finally

Mar 22 - 5PM (Reply to #11)
llong
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Yes it's true! I get yoga

Mar 21 - 8PM (Reply to #8)
Ophelia Standin...
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heres to all of you

Mar 22 - 9AM (Reply to #9)
MsFrenchie
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Hugs Ophelia