Help with suggestions, What do i say?please - - children involved

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#1 Feb 7 - 6AM
Sillycat
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Help with suggestions, What do i say?please - - children involved

So, I am still stuck here. But have decided to make contact, (although we live in the same house, we are texting each other at the moment) which I havent done for a while. But today, i just wanted to say I am going on 2 holidays with children.
I need your help to how to respond to his reply.
I wrote :
Children will be with me visiting andrea and her children in cartmel from 14 to 17 february, while our son has school holidays.
Also, trip to Brazil with them at next easter holiday (total 3 weeks- 2 normal and 1 extra school giving) from 01 to 23 april. Tickets reasonable (500 ) and our daughter 's brazilian passport still valid (it expires 14 August 14)

he replied:
I'm sorry?
You go wherever you want to go, but you cannot tell me you ARE taking my children whenever you want.
I stayed 3 weeks without my children, you go to Andreia if you want but my children are not going.

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He never looks after the children, never take them anywhere. But want them here around , also wants to control me as he knows I wont go without them/ I planning to visit this lovely countryside area with them as a treat.
What should i say to him? i dont want to get him to respond again.
Shall i just say tickets already bought?
Shall i just go with them on the date?
Shall I ignore him?

Thank you for your time...

Feb 8 - 1PM
Deidre99
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Why are you remaining in this

Feb 7 - 3PM
Hunter
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I'm really at a loss here..

Feb 7 - 11AM
Done sourcing
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Wow, I don't see how to teach

Feb 7 - 3PM (Reply to #20)
Sillycat
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I think i am all over the

Feb 7 - 11AM (Reply to #14)
Goldie
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Done

Feb 7 - 4PM (Reply to #16)
Done sourcing
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I thought she said he hit

Feb 7 - 4PM (Reply to #17)
Goldie
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Apparently

Feb 9 - 10AM (Reply to #19)
TruthbeginsToday
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I hope that you consider taking the steps, rather than rely on

Feb 7 - 5PM (Reply to #18)
Done sourcing
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Perfect... xoxo ds

Feb 7 - 1PM (Reply to #15)
Sillycat
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hopefully i will find a way.

Feb 7 - 9AM
Sillycat
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#thank you for your comments,

Feb 8 - 7AM (Reply to #10)
TruthbeginsToday
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a Narcissists Dream

Feb 8 - 4PM (Reply to #11)
Sillycat
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Thank you for what you wrote.

Feb 9 - 10AM (Reply to #12)
TruthbeginsToday
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I answered the best Ihave for you above.

Feb 7 - 9AM (Reply to #8)
Goldie
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Sillycat

Feb 7 - 10AM (Reply to #9)
Sillycat
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I suppose I only wanted to

Feb 7 - 9AM (Reply to #6)
Hunter
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Nope.. There is no more

Feb 7 - 10AM (Reply to #7)
Sillycat
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Thanks for that, will read it

Feb 7 - 8AM
Hunter
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I don't understand.. Do you

Feb 7 - 8AM (Reply to #4)
Goldie
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Hard to speculate

Feb 7 - 6AM
ididni
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My suggestions: Do not tell

Feb 7 - 4PM (Reply to #2)
TDbfree
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Heck, I agree. Don't say a