Help with suggestions, What do i say?please - - children involved
Help with suggestions, What do i say?please - - children involved
So, I am still stuck here. But have decided to make contact, (although we live in the same house, we are texting each other at the moment) which I havent done for a while. But today, i just wanted to say I am going on 2 holidays with children.
I need your help to how to respond to his reply.
I wrote :
Children will be with me visiting andrea and her children in cartmel from 14 to 17 february, while our son has school holidays.
Also, trip to Brazil with them at next easter holiday (total 3 weeks- 2 normal and 1 extra school giving) from 01 to 23 april. Tickets reasonable (500 ) and our daughter 's brazilian passport still valid (it expires 14 August 14)
he replied:
I'm sorry?
You go wherever you want to go, but you cannot tell me you ARE taking my children whenever you want.
I stayed 3 weeks without my children, you go to Andreia if you want but my children are not going.
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He never looks after the children, never take them anywhere. But want them here around , also wants to control me as he knows I wont go without them/ I planning to visit this lovely countryside area with them as a treat.
What should i say to him? i dont want to get him to respond again.
Shall i just say tickets already bought?
Shall i just go with them on the date?
Shall I ignore him?
Thank you for your time...
Why are you remaining in this
I'm really at a loss here..
Wow, I don't see how to teach
I think i am all over the
Done
I thought she said he hit
Apparently
I hope that you consider taking the steps, rather than rely on
Perfect... xoxo ds
hopefully i will find a way.
#thank you for your comments,
a Narcissists Dream
Thank you for what you wrote.
I answered the best Ihave for you above.
Sillycat
I suppose I only wanted to
Nope.. There is no more
Thanks for that, will read it
I don't understand.. Do you
Hard to speculate
My suggestions: Do not tell
Heck, I agree. Don't say a