Your BEST advise for Newbie's and Old Timers who may be struggling..........

I'll begin with this post I read yesterday:

"I got out of bed every day, fixed my hair, got dressed, put on makeup and pushed myself to recover. I didn't lay in bed, whining about how everyone was to blame for my problems. Not me, because I'm not a narcissist".

Out of the ashes~

Realizing this is not your fault: and he/she will not treat the OW/OM better:

"Narcissists do not do Special; no one is Special to them, aside from when they are in the grooming, love bombing, stage of manipulating you, and of course when they "Especially" want something from you."

~Goldie~

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