how do i respond? any advice really apreciated?xxx

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#1 Apr 9 - 1PM
hope29
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how do i respond? any advice really apreciated?xxx

Hey guys

I really could do with a little advice on how to be tomorrow when my boys daddy comes to collect him. I started strict limited contact all over again and i do not want to break it ever again.

I find the passover really difficult, as he trys to make conversation with me, or includes me in talk with my son, saying what they have been doing, i cant be hostile becoz i dont want my son picking up bad vibes how do i act? Just smile and say hi and focus on my boy, i do usually try and get in the house as quick as possible but i find even the tinyist bit of contact leaves me spinning!! I really dont want to fall weak ever again now, but i find it so difficult to not react when he drops our boy off or engage in conversation if he starts going on about what hes been doing with my boy? Any tips on this? Xxx

Apr 9 - 6PM
ClaimingHappiness
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I'm going pretty much through

Apr 9 - 7PM (Reply to #8)
ForeverFreedom
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i agree - no eye contact

Apr 9 - 4PM
ForeverFreedom
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i typically have a friend do the transfer at a public location

Apr 9 - 2PM
Done sourcing
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Hunter's advice is very

Apr 9 - 11PM (Reply to #5)
hope29
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Your right, i think it is

Apr 9 - 1PM
Hunter
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Find a third party to make

Apr 9 - 1PM (Reply to #2)
hope29
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Honestly i dont have anyone

Apr 9 - 3PM (Reply to #3)
Janie53
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Hope29