shared custody - managing the flow of info from child to Narc
shared custody - managing the flow of info from child to Narc
I am asking your advice/experience for how you manage the flow of info from your child/children to the ex-spouse/Narc-parent.
I am torn about having an open/honest relationship with my child & having child go tell Daddy about my life.
Ex-Narc takes every opportunity to poke at me, threaten, fight, etc. He clearly is reactive to hearing the good news of my life, my happiness, success, moving on stories. My child is too young to understand & keeping secrets from Narc-Dad is not something to teach a child.
Part of me is like - screw it - be open and honest with child about my joys and excitements and let the cards fall where they may.
As time goes on I get less reactive to his (email mostly, since I almost never see him) attacks. They bother me less. But he's still so vicious and sabotaging.
I wonder how the rest of you in my position handle the info/child situation with these LC Parenting relationships.
Thank you!
Okay, I got it, I'm in mourning.
Having an open/honest
Hi Done Sourcing, Thank you
He sounds like a complete
That's good
their game is endless devaluing
Marlinmom, Thank you!
Forever
Thanks Janie!