Wanted to share happy news

Hi,

I wanted to share my happy news.
I have officially been single for 1 year! (NC for 7months..... NC took a few goes to get)

And I'm happy and free!
Looking back to how I crap I felt a year ago I never would have thought I'd feel like I do today :)
My journey isn't finished yet, I'm still educating and healing but I am leaps and bounds ahead of who I was a year ago.

It's crazy to look bck and think about what I thought was normal in my relationship.
I can count on 2 hands the times I've cried in the past year......compared to the year before when we were together which was 3-4 times a week!

so to everyone who is still unsure about NC. It truly is the only way. My life was so much calmer when I did NC. Before that everytime I had contact it would stir me up for days and looking back now it's sad how much my mood affected the way I was with other people.... I just didn't have the energy for others. I'd shy away from spending time with people. Now I have made new friends and I'm happy to spend time with them.

Stick to NC. It works and paths the way for a much happier life.

Big hugs. Deestarr.