Geez I have encountered a raging narcissist once again, at the workplace.
I really need some help on how to handle this one!!
Was in a "relationship" with a pshychopath/N for many years and finally exposed him, and that lead me here and have learned so much, and healed so much from that crazymaking experience through this website.
Well now I have encoutered a female narcissist at work. This time it is not a romantic relationship.
It is the whole onslaught of behaviors:
*They want to distract you, derail you, take you down from your happy go lucky attitude.
*They want to disrupt your self-concept using projection, assigning negative qualities to you that aren't there (this is how the psychopath/N gets mind control over you,,,a HORRIBLE, HORRIBLE EXPERIENCE and only someone who has been the target of this understands.
*They mimic you. This one mimics the way I walk, how I talk, what I eat, what I wear, what I do, it is hidious.
*I DON'T know why all this mimicing is going on, I would guess it is to distract you and get all your great attention on them rather than being happy..
*They call you "disrespectful names" like rather than call you by your name, they call you some nickname and don't address you with respect.
*They act jealous of you.
*Every comment, sentence out of them all day long is I,I, I me me me me me..
I am someone now the target of a female narcissist of work, and they will not let it go.
It is constant, and I am only trying to do my job. It is very frustrating.
Do any of you had this happen or have any advice of how to deal with it. It is horrible to be the target of this, and your comments, advice, insights and learning how to handle this would be very helpful!!!