The gifts I sold

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Lovely1
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The gifts I sold

Upon meeting narc, within 3 weeks he bought me a $500 brand name watch, tickets to events, clothes, sunglasses, jackets, jewellery ( expensive labels) and I didn't even know him well. Oh and bags and make up.
Upon finding out some nasty truths, I sold half of the stuff that hadn't been used. I told him I sold them, he had a little cry. I changed the watch and bought a better one too ;)

Before leaving him officially 10 weeks ago, he wrote me an email stating how im the most selfish unkind person ever. That I sell presents he buys me and this is unloving and not girlfriend like . Ummmm that's just a shame isn't it?! I explained that I don't want sick memories and crap gifts from a loser. I only want real things from real people. Again as a real NArc, he couldn't see why I would WANT to get rid if his things. I'm a rational emotional person and I KNOW WHY I sold them. Because they were toxic fraudulent gifts.

I still have the rest of the things that I do use and I'm not getting rid of these because they are pretty useful and are now worn. I have no issues with these things.

Oh and when going out narc always wanted to pay , even though I was happy to pay too and then he would use the fact that he paid, as a means to say he participates. No, I chose all the places, he had no ideas about recreational activities and then thinks paying makes him macho and manly. Whatever!!

What have ur narcs tried to seduce you with?

Nov 2 - 9AM
broken23
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I have been reading and

Sep 4 - 11AM
talktothehand
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Never Gonna Get It

Sep 4 - 6AM
IncognitoBurrito
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He seduced

Sep 4 - 6AM (Reply to #25)
Juliette
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IB, you just described it to a T . . .

Sep 4 - 8AM (Reply to #26)
talktothehand
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Logic

Sep 4 - 5AM
talktothehand
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American Express

Sep 4 - 5AM
onwithmylife
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a few weeks

Sep 4 - 8AM (Reply to #22)
talktothehand
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That touch of mink...stinks

Sep 4 - 5AM
Hunter
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A seduction of the heart or a

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #20)
Darlene
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Hunter

Sep 4 - 5AM
tramah
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I paid for most things

Sep 4 - 4AM
Jenna H
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HA!!! Gifts? Spending money on me?

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #17)
lilyd30
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hmm gifts

Sep 4 - 4AM
Darlene
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Gifts

Sep 4 - 4AM (Reply to #7)
talktothehand
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Things

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #15)
Darlene
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Hell

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #8)
Darlene
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Compulsive

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #9)
talktothehand
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Surprise!?

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #10)
Darlene
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Sigh

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #11)
talktothehand
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WTF

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #12)
Darlene
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But

Sep 4 - 7AM (Reply to #14)
talktothehand
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Leaving Las Vegas

Sep 4 - 5AM (Reply to #13)
Darlene
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Thinking

Sep 4 - 3AM
Emma
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For my birthday he gave me a

Sep 4 - 2AM
talktothehand
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Money Money Money

Sep 4 - 2AM (Reply to #3)
Lovely1
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Mine would comment that I was

Sep 4 - 3AM (Reply to #4)
talktothehand
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Couch potato

Sep 4 - 1AM
Brit
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Gifts