Does anyone have any examples of how they were gaslighted? (great movie btw).
I am healing but this morning I am trying to figure out if I was gaslighted. I am posting a few examples of what I thought maybe gaslighting that was done to me.
One evening while we were no longer together but still "friends" we had finished texting and he accused me of sending him an inappropriate text meant for another man.
Another time he was harassing me for a friends phone number which I told him I did not want to give him. I finally relented and sent it to him and he told me I sent him a scrambled number and that he would get it himself. I then proceeded to end with him right there. The next morning at 5:30 am he said that I had texted him a nonsense word and he was answering me.
In the bringing he admitted to asking me "loaded questions". To see how I would answer and react.
When we would see each other (ldr) he would say he would be back in a few hours and not show up or call. When I would ask what happened he would make like nothing happened.
I have a few more that I can't remember off the top of my head. But I will post as they come to me!
Ten days NC!!!!