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Instead of screaming at my Narc I want to say, why can't he just leave. He's gone every weekend with the OW anyway! Then comes home & tries to be Superdad with our. 8 yr old daughter. The OW probably doesn't know he comes home to me. Don't worry, I don't talk to him or sleep with him. He goes on the computer & traces me, reads my emails & sees who I called. I know she doesn't know that. He took my neck support pillow & took it to her house. OMG, I fckn hate him so much! I wish murder was legal right now! Help me God! Its so hard to keep my mouth shut b/c if I don't he will just get pleasure out of my misery. He's so sick!It's so hard to find a good lawyer that doesn't cost $5,000 which I don't have.
Unbelievable, awful situation
September 19, 2012 - 12:50pm — RinaldaI'm at my own breaking point and want to SCREAM. Not being able to go NC because of work (or parenting, or whatever sorry situation keeps the N in one's life) is ***********HELL********.
The ex-N has had several new women since me, the current OW being an affair (he's got a GF). I can't escape having to witness the illicit relationship at work. I'm trying, trying, trying to ignore, and some days have great success (usually because he's not obviously with the OW). It boils my blood to see him fooling everyone still and playing games with me, too. He still tries to pretend we're friends.
As soon as I see them talking under their breath, or leaving together, or lying about where he's going (so he can sneak around with her), I'm upset all over again. It re-opens the old wounds every time.
I, too, pray for help.
Hang in there
August 28, 2012 - 9:19pm — RinaldaI am in that same murderous mindframe. Pieces of shit, they are, and not worth our fury. That is the only way I can calm down.
He leaves with the OW every weekend??? You don't deserve this crap. Do YOU have the ability to leave HIM, at least in terms of housing, food, etc?? Are there options?
Yup
August 20, 2012 - 1:02am — PumpkinYup, they are sooooo special. There must be some good lawyers out there. Mine wasn't one, and it cost way more than that.
Hope you make it through without him driving you over the deep end.
I feel your anger! These
August 19, 2012 - 10:04pm — pathtopeaceI feel your anger! These assholes are really something. They lie so good. Is it possible to look into legal aide?