The fake profile was created in a different name than her real name, but she stupidly used her real email to create it.

When I got the invite, I could tell it was a fake profile, no info, no photos, no 'friends' and created very recently. I accepted the invite so that I possibly could get more info to see if it was just a 'friend of a friend', and then saw the email affiliated with the profile. Not the same name at all. I mentioned this to a mutual friend, as I was concerned my EX was still trying to stalk me ( he has done this in person and online and I was on the verge of getting a Peace Bond Order against him if this continued) But this friend recognized the name of the email ( her real name ) and informed me it was his new GF. ( don't worry I blocked her right away ) She may have been wanting to see my photos and information. She may have wanted to ask about our relationship? I dunno!

So YES, it was his new GF. And I saw pics of her that she posted on her Real FB profile BEFORE she met my EX, and the 'new look' she posted on her profile pic yesterday when I wrote this post.

I was absolutely stunned and creeped out a little too that she went from practically black hair and very heavy make-up, dark eyeliner and lipliner...to have her hair dyed the exact color as mine ( dark blond w/ highlights) and cut her hair in exactly the same style as mine, and then posted a photo in the same pose ( position & smile from the side ) as MINE on my FB profile.

If anyone thought out this situation, SHE surely did.

There was a movie about a woman who had Borderline PD who made herself turn into almost an exact replica of a woman she both emulated and was jealous of, she had manipulated her way into this other woman's life and then literally dressed like and almost seemed to 'become' her...and then take over the other person's life and friends, and sabotage/ destroy this other person who she called her 'best friend'. I think that's the name of the movie called 'The Best Friend', ( never saw it )

I've never had anyone do this before. It feels VERY weird. I mean this OW has just made herself over to look so much like me that she could be my sister! I can't explain how creepy this feels to me. And she DID try to 'befriend' me on FB under a fake profile.

I have a blog that is in my real name. Obviously she know MY name ( you know these guys smear us and triangulate us with the new GF so she tries even harder to not make our mistakes and he gets even more supply as he plays on the 'pity' ) Perhaps she got curious and looked me up, and if she did....she would get A LOT of info on Narcissism, Psychopathology, and hints at his true nature...without my giving his name of course )

Yeah, I agree she definitely needs help, but nothing you can tell her would be enough to get rid of him if she really "addicted" to him already. Right now, he has her under his spell. It is great that you blocked her and are continuing NC with both of them. However, my heart breaks for those kids too. To see their mother fall for a man like this so quick, and what is right around the corner for all of them. I hope they aren't affected by what is about to happen.

is the only way to go. Whatever you tell, she will turn it around and use it against you. She will tell the ex-narc and then he will mindfuck her with what you say, Save youself the drama.

My ex-narc ow did the same thing, dyed her hair dark brown with highlights. It was just like mine. She even enrolled in college, just like me. Poor baby, he's mindfuck her 12 years and it's still going on.

When someone really wants help they will look for it. Just like we did.

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