Last week, Exnarch and his mother ship narc mom perpetrated almost a solid week of abuse, resentment and talking shit about me and my family to my daughter who is 12...over a ridiculous logistics issue involving ex MIL picking up my daughter from my sister....Ex MIL was so f'ing put out that she was asked to god forbid pick daughter up (about an hour away)...and spend time with her...and NOBODY bothered to thank her enough....One MIGHT think in a normal world, that grandma narc might WANT to spend time with daughter....but we all know how that goes here.
Anyway....daughter was brought back to our town, and then spent the next 4 days with them, and OW skank of course too. Twice, daughter bailed on them and escaped to my house....for a few hours or longer.
Then, on the last day...I get a call from my hysterical daughter crying saying her dad was screaming at her and wanted to come home....
When I got her, she said "he started out asking why I was so angry at grandma....and I said "I saw how mean she was to everyone and the awful things she kept saying about my mom like "You better watch it or you will turn out just like your mom"...shit like that. Can you imagine grandma placing her granddaughter in the middle of this over and over again?
He says raging more and more "Well don't believe your mom and aunt, they don't know anything..." ending all badly, she getting out of car, crying...and would not interact with him for almost 5 days...would not answer his calls/texts, etc.
She and I went away for the weekend to get away and have some fun. We golfed, went to the movie, swam at a hotel we like, stayed up late, ate bad stuff, laughed and laughed....just relaxed somewhere we NEVER went with with her dad narc.
But the morning she woke up, I asked her "How did you sleep?"....she said "awful"...why? "I dreamed my dad died"...I had heard her wimpering during the night.
What do you think? I know that kids dream this stuff. But, I could not help but think that she feels he is dying to her...has been for awhile....