My husband is a Narc. He left me three times within 8 months of marriage. Each time he left he went to his ex-girlfriend who he has left a couple of times when they were a couple. The last time that they were a couple he left her dated and eventually met me and we got married. They were obviously communicating because she was very upset when she learned that we were married last summer. A couple of months into our marriage she contacted me via facebook and told me he comes to her home and tells her he loves her and her kids. She has also contacted his family members saying he has been sleeping with her and married to me. Why would she even want his ass? but she takes him in everytime he comes to her. I want everyone to understand that each time he left me, he gave me the silent treatment and then moved in with her. Now we are set for divorce in one month. at our last court date...June 5th, my attorney had the judge issue him a no contact order. So I have not heard from him and I have not contacted him. However, I hear he is having...THE GOOD LIFE. For those of you who have been through this already (this is still fresh for me only 3mos.) please, please tell me if you have any stories of what eventually happens with him and the other woman.