Hi Canada!

Robo-Boy was so very paranoid coupled with his immaturity and an over-the-top fear of abandonment.

You said it perfectly with:

"Constantly talked about people not supporting him and abandoning him, and often thanked people who were currently supporting him to underline those that weren't..."

He was forever trying to garner my sympathy over his feelings that his congregation didn't appreciate him. He would go on tirades of all he's done for them (wrist to forehead here) and how UNGRATEFUL they all were.

He had 'one foot out the door' in that 'relationship', too- telling me that 'other groups wanted him as their teacher'. Now I see- even more clearly- how sick he was. He was determined to leave ALL his relationships before HE was discarded.

So. Very. Paranoid.

But maybe some of that paranoia and fear of abandonment was appropriate. After all, HE KNOWS how evil, twisted and deceptive he is. He is well aware that if people saw him without his 'mask of sanity' securely in place, they would RUN LIKE THE WIND!!!!!!

Hmm, let's see.

He is a musician and DJ, and he was always griping about someone else copying and stealing his ideas. He was very upset with me when I went out with friends one night and ended up singing with this other group. They had posted pics of me on their FB. According to him I put a knife in his heart. Funny how he doesn't get upset when his friends sing with them.

He didn't like me talking to his best friend, even if he was working he would continually come up and interrupt. He confessed later that he was worried that his friend was telling me bad things about him.

He would obsess if he had a bad night and not draw a crowd, he would text me constantly on those nights worried that people didn't like him.

He told me all his ex's were psycho. I can only think now...he is the common denominator.

I am sure there are many more that I can't recall at the moment.

he always thought others were 'talking about him' and he was paranoid about answering the phone because of bill collectors so he just let it ring...........

mine was CLEARLY hiding out from lots of people, women I'm sure, online. He actually grilled me once about what I saw about him and how on the web. Even asked what specifically I had searched for. Because I told him in the 15 years since we'd talked, I had looked for news of him occasionally, since he's an active service member (emphasis on the "member").

I also noticed that shortly after sending him my short termination email (ok, I was a little nuts at first & wasn't yet strictly NC, checking him out) that both he AND his wife had shut down their fb pages comepletely. Which is totally nuts bc he LIVED on that site. I can only imagine the pure panic I instilled in him. In truth, all I said was that he was dull, shallow and cruel, and he'd never hear from me again. Holy shit. His guilty conscience mustve had a freakin field day with that ambiguity. I shudder to think of all or ANY of the stuff he thinks I know.

Here's to many sleepless nights, ya prick!