All of my friends and work colleagues are going on about these stupid books ! Just watched an exchange between 2 friends in Facebook. I haven't read the books and I definitely won't be but my 2 friends were discussing how if he stood in front of you and told you what to do you'd do it because you'd be under his spell and the other friend said oh I just want him to love her she wants to be loved by him and then they went into oh all men should read this book and try and be like him !!
Clearly the story is about a man who's controlling a woman through sex and he doesn't love her and she desperately wants him to love her and women everywhere are falling for me grey and wanting one. Well this got me to thinking this is perfect reading material for a psychopathic predator ! And all these women are basically putting it out there and telling these men what they want ! I'm the hands of a decent man maybe it would be ok but in the hands of a psychopath it's dangerous !! Teaches them even more maniulation skills !!
I can see my ex n buying these books and reading them and then being me grey to lure his future victims !! It's like a manual for psychopaths !!
When I first began having sex with my ex n and got involved with him he was totally focused on pleasing me and it was like sex that you read about in romantic novels making love. Of course it soon became robotic and less loving like they do. But I remember with my gut being off anyway and the feeling of this man is just too good to be true thinking to myself this whole relationship his whole persona and the sex and everything feels like he's read a book and is following the instructions. Everything he said and did felt like hed learned it from a manual on how to be the perfect lover or boyfriend and how to make any woman love you ! So these books are going to be great material for him to read and mimic !!!
It makes me feel sick !! They are also saying oh I'd let him get away with it because he has so much money blah blah !! Stupid stupid comments !! I just want to right on their Facebook comments you fools ! You don't want a mr grey !! He's a dangerous predator and those books are encouraging psychopathy !!
God will I ever be able to feel normal again ! I kind of feel very triggered by all this talk of mr grey :( I can't get away from it !