Eurgh, I havent seen the narc in person since he left a year ago. The house we shared is still not sold and its all thru solicitors with him bein v pathetic and basically a narc!!!
SO,,,, today im driving home from my friends who lives in the same area as narcs mum n dad, and i get to the roundabout and hes driving past me, i was a bit unaware at first cos i was looking across the roundabout as my friend was in her car across from me, and when i turned my head he was looking at me dead on, and driving in the direction i needed to drive. He then started laughing as the OW was sat next to him lookin like she was chattin to him, and I sorta smirked!!!! haha! I then was driving right behind him for a few seconds b4 he screeched up the road like a racing driver and off!!! hahaha!!!!!
The funny thing is I have been dreading seeing him for ages and wondering how i would feel, and tbh i didnt get that funny feeling in my stomach, i didnt feel sick, I actually felt relieved!!!!! Relieved that i didnt have to look at his face and his stupid combover he has goin on to cover his bald spots, relieved that i dont have to sit at his narc mums on a saturday afternoon listening to her droning on about how i need to be a better gf, thinner, dress better, etc (I had just had a lovely afternoon in the park with my friend and kiddies), and even tho i wasnt lookin my best, i couldnt care less what he thought of me anymore!!!! (oh and the OW, couldnt give a toss!!!!!)
Also a few months ago when I had just moved into my new house, my neighbour spotted a car driving really slow past my house and he described the car and the guy, and the guy was an exact description of him, but was a different car to what he had when he was with me. Well the car he was driving was the exact description and just confirms now that it was him who was practically stalking me!!!! how bloody sad!!!!!
I feel quite happy that i have got over that hurdle of seeing him, even if it was just for a few seconds, but that has really cemented that I have moved on, i have learnt from here, and that I dont have to dread anymore about how i would react when i saw him, cos its happened and whatever else happens now, i know i can handle it!!!!!