I have posted a few post on here over the past few years regarding my Narcissist Boyfriend. Even though I have read several post and comments that said run as fast as you can, I decided to stay with my boyfriend because I Love Him With All My Heart / We have been together for 3 years.
Since my last post - We have had minor issues but for the most part things have been pretty calm. Until Now !
I then had a hip replacement on June 11th. and I told him not to come and visit me in the hospital but he took off the day from work and came to see me after my surgery on Monday. He then returned on Wednesday. I came home on Friday and he spent the night. He had obligations on Saturday but returned Sunday and brought clothes with so he could go to work the following day. He was great the whole week- helped me shower, get in bed, changed my bandages etc. He looked like he was enjoying helping me out and stayed the entire week with me.
Saturday morning he left early and text me later and said he was staying home. Sunday he seemed distant and I asked if anything was wrong. He said that he can't deal with our relationship anymore and with him spending a week with me it felt like a marriage and he has already done that and doesn't want to do it again. He claims that I love him way to much and until I can prove him that I do not love him we are no longer going to engage in sex or hang out as much. I asked him if there was another woman involved and he said he was being honest and the answere was (no other woman)
So ladies I am stumped. This guy has known I love him, and he flipped out on me for no reason. Thats the best excuse he could come up with for ending what we had. But the funny part is he will text me every morning and say good morning but then when I respond back, he then replies back, Busy /Later,,,,,,, which means don't bother him.
Yesterday he was so nasty to me via text that after he got out of work he actually called me to apologize for his behavior as he was having a bad day at work. I thought that was sort of cool that he called, but then today I get the Busy /Later response from him.
In my own opionion I think he loves me and whenever he gets to close to me and is having his own feelings then he starts a fight and makes everything my fault. I don't know what to do anymore. The sex is great, we have fun together but his moods swings come into play at any given time for no apparant reason, he just lashes out at me.
I'm not sure if this can even be repaired this time,,,, this fight seems different, like he really means it this time and he isn't coming back.
Please ladies give me some feed back - Much Appreciated.