He asked me what I did, I said it was private. He would joke about threesomes, I said go ask someone else. He asked if I had any videos with previous lovers he could see, I told him he had problems. He said it was a turn on to him if he could hear about my past sex life. Then he asked if he could do me in my wedding dress (I was married once before) and all I could think is he is sick in the head. I didn't know how to respond. I think I said one day you can do your wife in her dress. He was quiet.

No, not sex questions, but questions about men from my past. Their looks, etc...

I think this is mainly to see how they measure up, and also as neverlookback says...it's just part of their sickness.

Something he did ask which I thought was odd, was if I talked about gf's...and he hadn't met them (we lived in diff states, but we met through mutual friends here locally where I live when he was visiting) he would ask if he could see pics. I found that disrespectful.

Then again, he didn't respect me, so I shouldn't have been surprised.

And wanted to watch me do not one but a group of men while he watched! SICK