Part of my healing from The Disordered One is to demystify him and to take back my power (as I become slowly aware of the many small ways I willingly gave power over to him!)
Part of this process includes validating my experiences with the many NarcoPaths in my life. As a child, I was trapped in the 'Fun House of Mirrors' unable to articulate (even to myself) MY dreams, feelings and desires. Now that I'm an adult, I still find that validating my experiences and following my intuition does not come naturally for me. I often have to pause, reflect, and almost push through this invisible barrier between my rational mind and my more perceptive side.
Anyway, as immature as this might seem, (it's actually quite empowering!) I present to you some of my favorite monikers:
~Robo-Boy (because he's so cold/limited emotional world)
~The Cyborg (same reason as above)
~His Nibs (because he's demanding & tyrannical)
~King Baby of Planet N
~Mr. NarcoPath (I'm unsure if he's an N or a P)
~The Disordered One
There's more but I wanted to get you all started up! I've heard some really funny names for your Narc-Boys over the months...Care to post your favorites here?