email abuse from exnh-psychopath
let me count the words: 1250 -- scrambled egg &, tossed salad
It could have been 11 words.
Oh the drama! He is creating such a wordy threatening FUSS over nothing. WOW. Boo hoo for him. He set it up for the drama. It's all a wind storm of his making. WOW.
HE IS DOING IT ON PURPOSE.
IT'S A TOTAL GAME
He creates a drama, accuses me and threatens me, then he will get to refer to it forevermore in more accusatory and threatening emails.
Just like when we were married.
He is "kicking me" over last weeks problem with financial matters that I referred to my lawyer.
I stand up for myself - he kicks.
He's been writing inflammatory emails for YEARS -- all throughout our marriage.
I am looking at my options on how to deal with this. PLEASE ADVISE
1. I can ignore his lies, inflammatory rhetoric, etc.
-gives him zero supply
-requires no time or money from me
2. I can refer it to the Parent Coordinator.
-shines a light on his disordered behavior
-perhaps controls his abusive behavior
I'm activated, charged by it, annoyed by it. There's some extra energy over it, but I am not helpless.
I can see the humor in it.
Best way to handle it?