Someone posted about meeting men and the men not being interested. I too am experiencing the same thing which is fine because I have no intention of dating anyway. However, for the first time ever I started feeling old ugly and boring. like the other poster mentioned in the past men found me interesting, fun and attractive. This really got me thinking.

I finally came up with a possible answer. Ok yes it might be because I've lost my spark due to the post n depression, or maybe that I look worn and aged since him..but honestly, I think there is much more to it.

I'm thinking many men are no longer interested because I am no longer radiating as a potential target. I've turned into a no nonsense kind of girl and maybe it's simply the n types who no longer find me interesting.

I've become so good at red flagging and I'm so turned off by idiot behavior that maybe I'm no longer a magnet for men looking for victims. I've read that n's don't bother with women that they know aren't easy targets. I think this may be the case. The ego types, don't even look in my direction where b4 they would zone in on me like I was a barbecuing steak.

For the first te ever I no longer feel vulnerable to these kind of men because I find them so repulsive, they must be able to smell that I'm wise and they simply don't bother with me.

For those that are healed and changed ,did u also find that n's were no longer attracted to you?
What a great thing...intolerance for bullshit.. I Finally got it! :)