Unfriended him on Facebook

Unfriended him on Facebook
Posted May 28, 2012 - 1:21am
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I just made a decision to unfriend my ex Narc from facebook and trying to not to regret it. Its been two weeks since I broke up with him, I had blocked him from my newsfeed last week (even though he might have blocked me from his newsfeed because I haven't seen any posts from him in two weeks which is highly unlike him). And just now I decided to unfriend him completely so I wouldn't be stalking his page (his page is set to private). But now I can't see anything or know what's going on with him. Crazy, yes I know. Guess it was my last link to him and maybe I just wasn't as ready as I thought I was. But its done and I know I won't request him as a friend again. Struggling with what I just did, knowing that it is for the best. I could really use some encouraging words, if anyone is out there.

‹ Yep,same pattern repeated I'm so sad, but the fog has lifted maybe a little bit!! ›
uncomfortablynumb's picture

Nice work, you've done better

May 28, 2012 - 6:36pm — uncomfortablynumb

Nice work, you've done better than me, all I did was deactivate my account and start a new one with a fake name, which is totally conducive to my comittment-phobia.

Hunter's picture

Sounds like a plan and it

May 28, 2012 - 9:10am — Hunter

Sounds like a plan and it sounds like youre listening to us..

You're off to a good start..

Hunter

Costa's picture

Exactly

May 28, 2012 - 2:54am — Costa

This is exactly the time when this blocking technology is there to be used.

That was a big move. You're made of strong stuff. It'll help greatly with the NC, control and your mind off the guy.

Well done! Very much the right move at the right time.

Very best, take care, stay strong, stay here at TPF.

Lucky Escape's picture

Hi pierclub You have totally

May 28, 2012 - 1:27am — Lucky Escape

Hi pierclub

You have totally done the right thing...this is a major step forward with NC...however, I would go one step further and BLOCK him so he can not get to anything.

I really appreciate how hard it is at first, and believe me, I have done some cyber stalking through all of this at first, but all it does is cause YOU pain. The best thing is to bite it now and start as you mean to go as after a few days, it really does get easer.

The more you stay in his world, the less you are in yours and this will really hold you back.

All the MOD's on here will tell you to focus on you right now and dealing with your feelings.

You will get through this, but you have to stay away, completely.

LE x

pierclub's picture

Thanks

May 28, 2012 - 5:30pm — pierclub

Thanks to everyone's comments. and Lucky Escape true true words. Stalking his page has been causing ME pain. One of the reasons I took him out of my newsfeed in the first place. But you're right the more I stay in his world, the less I'm in mine and its something I really need to keep in mind. I need to remember that. Even though its still hard and his facebook page is in the back of my mind, today I didn't feel that anxiousness when logging into my facebook. I just hope it gets easier and easier as time goes by.

Thank you again!