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Hello! I had joined this forum one year and one week ago, and haven't posted here since late 2011, so hopefully the people that were regular posters at that time have "graduated" too.
Just wanted to reach back and offer some encouragement to those of you who are just waking up to the abuse. It is absolutely, entirely possible to heal and move n and be happy. No matter what dark places you may find yourself in during your healing journey, ride it out. Stay NC. I used to repeat that mantra all the time when I posted here, because it cannot be said enough. That is the single most important act of caring you can do for yourself, in recovering from an assclown.
Wishing all of you great love and light and hope and happiness.
Empath
May 27, 2012 - 7:23am — Janie53Thank you fellow empath. Positive progress reports rock and I think helps everyone feel hopeful even during hard times.
Keep staying true to you! It works!
Janie
Thank you for your words of
May 26, 2012 - 2:58pm — chris53Thank you for your words of encouragement, have a great day! :-)
empath
May 26, 2012 - 12:53pm — UsedThankYou for this post it gives everyone hope....
EMPATH BY NAME EMPATH BY NATURE...
empath thank you for caring
May 26, 2012 - 9:30am — LoserFreeempath thank you for caring and reaching out to all of us here.
Your words of encouragement mean so much.....
Wishing you continued love and happiness
LoserFree
This is good to hear. It's
May 26, 2012 - 8:42am — Lisa MitchellThis is good to hear. It's been 3 weeks today with NC adn the first 2 weeks were easy but this week has been hard I want to tell myself that it wasnt so bad...yeah right..a delusion on my part. I feel angry and want to tell him about it. I had great news this week and want to tell him about it. but I know I can't and even if I did he wouldnt care..his famous words I dont give a fuck or i could give give a rats ass. I just keep telling myself ulitimate revenge is NC and the healing will only take place with Nc.so for today I'm not going to call him.
You already know what to do to take care of yourself...NC.
May 26, 2012 - 11:55am — empathNC works. Trust the process. :-)
It's great when members come
May 26, 2012 - 2:24am — tootsgeeIt's great when members come back and post .. it gives us all hope! All the very best to you empath xx
Thank you empath for you
May 26, 2012 - 1:27am — eyeswideopen35Thank you empath for you inspirational post....
Love and light to you,
Eyes, xo
Thank you Empath, what an inspirational message
May 26, 2012 - 1:07am — goldieWarms my heart ot hear you are doing well and thank you for sharing your strength and hope with all of the members.
God bless,
Goldie