Just dropping by to say hello and let you know there is light at the end of the tunnel...

Just dropping by to say hello and let you know there is light at the end of the tunnel...
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Hello! I had joined this forum one year and one week ago, and haven't posted here since late 2011, so hopefully the people that were regular posters at that time have "graduated" too.

Just wanted to reach back and offer some encouragement to those of you who are just waking up to the abuse. It is absolutely, entirely possible to heal and move n and be happy. No matter what dark places you may find yourself in during your healing journey, ride it out. Stay NC. I used to repeat that mantra all the time when I posted here, because it cannot be said enough. That is the single most important act of caring you can do for yourself, in recovering from an assclown.

Wishing all of you great love and light and hope and happiness.

Janie53's picture

Empath

Thank you fellow empath. Positive progress reports rock and I think helps everyone feel hopeful even during hard times.

Keep staying true to you! It works!

Janie

chris53's picture

Thank you for your words of

Thank you for your words of encouragement, have a great day! :-)

Used's picture

empath

ThankYou for this post it gives everyone hope....
EMPATH BY NAME EMPATH BY NATURE...

LoserFree's picture

empath thank you for caring

empath thank you for caring and reaching out to all of us here.
Your words of encouragement mean so much.....

Wishing you continued love and happiness

LoserFree

Lisa Mitchell's picture

This is good to hear. It's

This is good to hear. It's been 3 weeks today with NC adn the first 2 weeks were easy but this week has been hard I want to tell myself that it wasnt so bad...yeah right..a delusion on my part. I feel angry and want to tell him about it. I had great news this week and want to tell him about it. but I know I can't and even if I did he wouldnt care..his famous words I dont give a fuck or i could give give a rats ass. I just keep telling myself ulitimate revenge is NC and the healing will only take place with Nc.so for today I'm not going to call him.

empath's picture

You already know what to do to take care of yourself...NC.

NC works. Trust the process. :-)

tootsgee's picture

It's great when members come

It's great when members come back and post .. it gives us all hope! All the very best to you empath xx

eyeswideopen35's picture

Thank you empath for you

Thank you empath for you inspirational post....

Love and light to you,

Eyes, xo

goldie's picture

Thank you Empath, what an inspirational message

Warms my heart ot hear you are doing well and thank you for sharing your strength and hope with all of the members.

God bless,
Goldie