Thanks to my NARC

Thanks to my NARC
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I'd like to thank you for being exactly who you are. I'd like to thank you for my experience with you. You have given me the oppurtunity to change my life. I am learning more and more about me everyday and you know what? I am an ok person. I am compassionate, I am worthy, I am friendly, I am nice, I understand empathy, I am a great mom and friend.

Thanks to you I have found an amazing group of women who understand. They have been there, done that and got the t-shirt.

Thanks to you I will love me first and foremost. I will only give myself and my love and my heart to someone who is worthy.

My experience with you (yes, I refer to it as an experience not a relationship) is more than just a life lesson for me. It is the start of something bigger and better. Thank you for that.

My kids thank you too. Remember them? You faked your love for them and they loved you so. You were the only DAD they have ever known and you knew how important that was to them. But thank you, they are now grateful for me, they are respectful, they are thankful and they understand who and what you are. They will carry that lesson with them throughout their lives and grow up to have only healthy relationships. They are amazing young men and get more amazing with each passing day. Thank you!

Thanks for all you have taught me. Thanks for showing me how I don't want to be treated. Thank you for showing me the things I will no longer tolerate.

Thank you for changing my life for the better. Because of you I have found a beautiful group of women, I have established life long friendships with women I would have never met had it not been for you.

Thanks marcnipulator.

Froglegs's picture

Thank you for this. I REALLY

Thank you for this. I REALLY needed to read this tonight, especially the bit about the children part. Moved me.

Janie53's picture

And thank you

And thank you Movingforwardnow for sharing that with us.
You are true to you!

Janie

BtrflyGrl's picture

Very Nice MFN

I thought you said you weren't a good writer? Silly Girl.

:)

LoserFree's picture

Ya MFN you told me you

Ya MFN you told me you weren't a good writer, too. LOL

This was an amazing post. What a great way to turn negative thoughts into positive ones!!. Remember it's all what we tell ourselves in our head.

Great job gerlfreeeeeeend!! haha

:)

LoserFree

Grymel's picture

This is beautiful

I cannot wait to get to this part in my healing. Very positive and empowering words. Thank you.
Grymel

Movingforwardnow's picture

Grymel

You can get there if you do the work. You will be there before you even know it.

Good luck on your journey, you are at the right place!
mfn

spinning's picture

mfn, this train is moving out

of narcville full speed ahead!

I love this! I feel your power and strength in this outstanding, very well written words!

You're way too good for the loser and abuser. HIS LOSS!!! I love it!!!!

xoxo
(not) spinning. JUST GRINNING AT THIS AWESOME POST!

Movingforwardnow's picture

The train

is in route and has no intention of turning around.

Bye - bye!

sweetpeasarah's picture

Excellent MFN!

I mentioned in another post today, that I thank him for the experience, because it has allowed me to find out who i really am, taken most of my life for it to happen, but hey! better late than never!!
AND, without the god awful time spent with toad, i would never have found this forum, and everyone here, so, all in all every cloud does have a silver lining.
Im at last starting to like myself, he however will always hate the horrible little skiprat that he is.
Justice, girls!
xx

Layla's picture

"Thanks marcnipulator." hahaha! Awesome!

I second what you just wrote! He handed every single weakness and insecurity of mine right to me on a silver platter, and now I can see it clearly, and fix it.

Thank you assclown! You did ONE good thing in your life! haha!

Loved this!

love~ Layla

wsh's picture

I'm LMAO & a few tears too!

I sooooo want to "steal" this letter & actually send it to my "teacher"!!!!! Dammit! Oh well......the moron wouldn't understand it anyway! NCNCNCNCNC

Movingforwardnow's picture

Nope he won't understand

this is how he will read it:

Thank you for being the best thing that ever happened to me. Thnak you for being the hottest, best looking man on the planet. Thank you for being the king of the world. The best lover, the best, the best, the best.

He will think it says how much I miss him and can't live without him.

blah, blah, blah....

bluegirl's picture

hahaha, of course that is

hahaha, of course that is what he would hear.

wsh's picture

MFN, you are SO RIGHT!

Just one more bit of PROOF that these assholes come from a DIFERENT PLANET!!!!!