OK - briefly - Wednesday I had a conversation with a woman I know who informed me "I just met your mother" (original NARC - NC for nearly 6 years). Details don't matter, but when this woman told me "she's such a sweetheart" I WANTED to throw up & tell her, yeah? wait until you actually KNOW HER! But I just changed the subject & that was that.
Yesterday, get my mail, invitation for nephew's graduation from NARC SISTER (NC for 5 years)- ONLY hear from her when it's a play for $$$$$. Tossed it in the trash & that was that.
5 FUCKING MINUTES AGO???? I'm HERE - posting & having FUN!
Phone rings - it's right next to the computer - ID says "private caller" so I don't answer (never do) & stbx a-hole LEAVES A MESSAGE! (who's f'g phone is he using????)
So.....over the last 8.5 months since I booted his ass out, I've heard "...going broke & waiting to die" & "....loading the gun now" & a few other stupid things. TODAY it's "I'm gonna be HOMELESS IN A MONTH...hope you're happy now" & he is clearly DRUNK! & it's only 2:35 in the afternoon here!
He's been living in his old house (rental while we were married) & trying to sell it. Certainly will get some money out of it when it sells, so what's the "homeless" crap?
You see, HIS life not going the way HE wants is all MY FAULT, right? NOT!!!!!
I am so NOT affected by this one bit! My reason for posting this is #1) more "pity play" & "poor, poor me" which is his favorite thing to do when the rage doesn't work on me. and #2) there IS KARMA for these f'd up, pseudo-men!
I'm sure this is just the first of more bullshit to come.......& as "mean" as it may sound, my response to any & all of his whining, blame me BULLSHIT is "you are reaping what you sow asshole!!"