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Movingforwardnow's picture

Horrible story

i read this once before and it makes me sick to my stomach.

My exN was physically abusive and I stayed, and stayed, and stayed. Thought it was my fault.

NOT MY FAULT.

Had I stayed longer I shudder at the thought this could be me.

mfn

TruthbeginsToday's picture

I am a survivor

I have PTSD from what I suffered, so I'd rather not re-live it here by telling the details.... (I cry and feel nauseated)BUT You are so right.

Sick is sick....and it's unpredictable. I found out thehard way.I'd been with my husband for several years before he began the physical stuff. When he no longer had full control of me and I stood up to his lies and gaslighting ...he got worse and I threatened to leave unless he got help. Back then I thought he just needed to work out his issues. I WAS WRONG....I'm lucky to still be here.

I swear I never believed that he could have been capable of such things. I knew he was controlling and manipulative and lied a lot....but the shock of what happened really shocked me.

DON"T TAKE THE CHANCE! Get out now.