I am 4 months NC and was using a third party to negotiate the terms of returning each of our things. Since we shared m y house up north & his house down south, there were many belongings. I told him via 3rd party that he could keep the majority of the things that I had at his house. I was very generous. He returned all my clothes a few months ago. I did want 3 items back. One was a memory foam mattress that my mom gave me....brand new that I took to his place down south for US to use.
I asked him tonite where it was. Since he flew back, he could not bring the 3 things I wanted but also said that my daughter told him that he could have this mattress. Of course this was to be used by US...not HIM & whoever else. I don't know what to do. He has all of his stuff.
No one paid for the mattress, not even my mom, so it's not like I am out any money. I guess it's the principle. Going to magistrate out of state...is any one familiar with this? We are both residents of the same town up here.
I was very calm & matter of fact when dealing with him but now I wished I would have demanded my stuff before he got his. Opinions?