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Today would have been 2.5 years.
I'm sad today. Missing what could have been.
The whole situation is crap.
I'm sorry you are feeling down.
Missing what could have been is complete fantasy.
The truth is what happened.
The truth is sometimes ugly.
Yep, pretty much..
But staying in a crappy situation has no end and no hope..
Deestarr I am sorry you are so sad today.
But try and see it this way.
2.5 years and you would still be waking up miserable EVERY DAY!!! That is TRUE sadness!
It is difficult because we have to accept the Disordered man in our life CAN NOT change. And life is all about change!! But sadly, not in the case of a N/P.
We are here for you!!!
We feel your pain
Sorry you are having a bad day but instead of missing what couldn't have been because he is a narc, shift the focus to what can be ahead. You have a freedom now to yourself! Take advantage of this and move forward!
Don't forget, this path froward is all about you now my friend!
Stay true and focus on you!
Thinking of you deestarr I hope you do something nice for yourself today, nuture and be kind to yourself...
Onwards and upwards.. Xo
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