I had been NC since last Friday. Unfortunately for me I picked up the phone yesterday. I did so because My 14 yr old was with him at the time and I was waiting for him to bring her home. Big mistake! He immediately went into a tirade of how I have no telling him what to do thru her. I reminded him that this is in fact what HE does all the time. Case in point, because he writes a support check (after over 4 months of not) he tells her to get lunch money from me and will not be making any meals for her. I told him he was a deadbeat. Probably not the smartest thing but I said it. He went on to say that sincce he is paying I should take care of everything. I told him ok that is fine I would rather have her eat dinner with me every day. Then he went on that "he took care of me for 36 years and how I sucked him dry etc etc " He told me if I want the rest of my personal belongings I have to come when he is there. I informed him I didn't need his permission my name is on the deed. again prob not smart but can't take it back. He went on to say I contributed nothing and deserve nothing. He told me that I abandoned our family and should be entitiled to nothing and that be ready for a long expensive court battle. he even indicated that he was going to fight for the 14 yr old. This went on for 15 minutes why I stayed on the phone is beyond reality. He also accused me of wanting to go to the house to f" my boyfriend on his bed. ( I have no boyfriend and no desire to enter another realtionship) I finally hung up. He dropped my daughter off and then proceeded to call. I put my phone on silent then he called my daughter and she handed me the phone. He screamed into the phone "I would rather go to jail then give you another penny" I calmly said "oh thats nice and hung up. Later he called my daughter again asking her if she wanted to eat with him the next day. I had already planned dinner so I took the phone and told him I have no problem with Emily eating dinner with you but last minute changes will not be happening she will be eating with me as planned and Weds. if you would like her to eat with you that is fine. He acted like the previous arguemnet never happened.