about my future..if I'll remarry...or if I'll even date. He moved out in October & divorce wasn't final until February. That being said, I'm nowhere near ready to date. I'm not sure that I ever will be. I no longer trust men....but even more so I no longer trust my judgement of character. I'm working on getting myself back & have made lots of progress. I just don't believe I'll ever be the same as before narc. I want peace, security & stability...and I'm getting that now. Not sure I want to risk losing that again.