that I traded one addiction for another.....I believe I have posted about this issue before. I have been so "trained", as has anyone else in recovery through AA, that if you stop working the program (going to meetings, praying, having a sponsor, helping others), alot of old behaviors will return....3 years ago, I was so strong in my recovery program with AA and celebrate recovery, I NEVER would have put up with this shit....One of the major problems for me was that I allowed him to control me in the beginning, telling me all kind of terrible things about AA and that I am not a Christian if I go...he did not like me going anywhere, with any of my friends.....I was NOT ALLOWED to go and see my kids in cleveland....and he said they were not welcome in his house, then about 5 months later, they could come, but only one at a time because he could not handle both of them....he always said TERRIBLE things about my kids...we would get into major screaming fights about it. The further I was becoming away from my recovery,,,,,making him my whole life, the sicker I was becoming with my issues....at this point right now...YES, I AM IN FULL BLOWN ADDICTION MODE EXCEPT IT'S NOT ALCOHOL OR DRUGS....IT IS A PERSON!!! I almost feel I have regressed so badly that it's hard to even say that I am "sober" Now that I am OUT, and actually I have not been over his house since Friday night when it all blew up (and I broke the lights), I can start getting back to all of my support system that worked so well for over 6 years. I have been away from the help I need, on a daily basis, that I am STUCK and acting like crazy person. I WILL HAVE TO DO THINGS FOR MY RECOVERY....AND NOW THIS SITE IS A BIG PART OF THAT TO GET BACK TO WHERE I WAS 2 YEARS AGO!!!
I know I play a part in this because I have been the one that has stayed and allowed him to treat me this way

I called ATT yesterday and had that put on.....I blocked him right away....he called my work yesterday, but I had the secretary screening the calls. I received some text messages from him later on in the day and called them....they said it could take 24-48 hours. Then this morning, he called and left a message on my voice mail using his kids phone......he is making it seem like he wants to "work on our marriage as he love me deeply".....he said "I'm sorry you decided to block my number.
I IMMEDIATELY WENT TO AT&T WEBSITE AND BLOCKED BOTH OF HIS KIDS PHONES... ...then, a few hours later, I start receiving text messages from him. So how can it be blocked at 7am and say that he was blocked so he had to use a different phone, and then 2 or 3 hours later I am receving text messages?? That is why I was asking for the other service someone on here was telling me about....I actually found the post from someone on here....the site is called "Mr. Number" I started looking it up.
I have not received anything else for hours, so maybe it is working again now.....HOWEVER, I will change my number if that is what I need to do!!

The FIRST thing I did when I got rid of the abuser was change my cell and home phone numbers and I felt so POWERFUL doing it!!!!! Trust the members and Mods here on this!!! And you CAN get a Restraining Order on him if he harasses/threatens you!!! I DID against my abuser! He had to leave the house first and STAY AWAY with NO CONTACT was added later when he wouldn't go away! I told you this before, there is a warrant out for his arrest because in typical PD fashion, he just could not control himself and he continued to leave messages on my work voicemail and send emails. Married or not, NO ONE can harass and threaten another!!!!

Get in the driver's seat of your life and block the hell out of him! The PD love bombs to lure and catch us, and we No Contact BOMB THEM to get rid of them!!! Polar opposite strategies for polar opposites people! : ))

YOU own your life, he is just a roadblock to peace and happiness!

love~ Layla