I messed up. It WAS day 4 of NC and I was lonely (been a bad week and feeling kinda bad because I had called him out on being a narc, called him a human tapeworm,etc and last night I was reading it stems from mother issues and his mon died-I saw the gravestone) and he has been lying about his "roomatee" who is a woman being platonic. While I can believe such a situation exsists but not when she gave him a $30,000 credit card, a pool table, doesn't pay rent and I'm not allowed in the house, and had lead me believe she was originally male. So I said nobody bought his story, it was over and I wished him good luck but i just couldn't buy his story so there would be no reason for him to stop by-he works (since he's been with her not as much) accross the street from my apt. He came back with "so don't buy it then". I know I should of stayed nc but I wanted a friendly good bye, as I've always stayed friendly w/ my ex's instead I got a slap in the face so I texted back and thanked him for showing his true colors and that I was finally over him. I know they say he always comes back but this should do it right ?