What should I do about calling my kids when they are at their father's?
I have maintained a sort of Sheer Force of Will attitude, but now I'm questioning it.
I have called them no-matter-what.
Now I'm re-thinking that. It's just an opportunity for him to mess with me. Maybe the kids should just call me? Tonight I called and he did this fake voice, surprised to hear from me, "OH Hi Abreva!" (like who was there, observing him?) like we were Old Buddies. And then he dicked around with the phone and my kid, and made me wait. Said he'd have kid call me back. No phone call. I called again. Blah Blah Blah.
Tell me, what is my policy?
I'm thinking better to not give him any opportunity to toy with me.
This has been going on for nearly 2 years.