I can relate to this......and so can my N/P girlfriend (the one before me)......I ended up meeting his girlfriend, the one he was with right before me. Only 2 WEEKS before we got married, he had proposed marriage to her. She was totally blindsided when she found out 2 weeks later he was married to me. LIKE 2 WEEKS....LITERALLY 2 WEEKS and the one before her and his first exwife he had proposed to only 6-8 weeks before that!!!
When I finally moved out in January, he had a new one in 1-2 weeks again. Then, like a fool, I BEGGED him to come back telling him I was wrong for leaving (what a mistake)....he said he would break it off, but he didn't. I'm sure when I finally start NC today and stick with it, she will be moved in in no time at all.
It is so painful.....I can't believe I meant nothing and he can just move on like that!!

about him, the easier your recovery will be.

Their lives are shallow and depressing.

Stay NC and cut him out of your life- FOREVER so that you can live peacefully.

Dear NarcSurvivor1, are you reading, gaining knowledge, and insight in to Ns/psychopaths? This event would be of no surprise and of no consequence if you fully understood what a psychopath is. Ns cannot love, they feel no emotions at all for anyone, they mimic emotions from real humans. Ns are psychopaths a sub-species - not human as we understand it. Ns are able to move on in an instant because they feel nothing for supply, they always have other supply at hand, are always able to secure supply quickly with their addictive dynamic and any willing supply will do. This was not personal to you - the N didn't care whether it was you or someone else giving them the attention they all pathetically and desperately seek - anyone would have done. It means nothing that he's moved in with the next victim - Ns tweak their agenda to suit, to best control/manipulate. Pick yourself up, work on you, look after you, the N is the past, what he is doing and with whom is no longer of importance to you. I was with the xN - 10 years and I don't think about him at all, don't care where he is, what he's doing - ever. I am living free and so can you. NC = no contact of any kind, not checking up, not listening to information about the xN, nothing - ever again. NC = sanity, peace, and the space to heal/recover.

He has probably lined her up long before. They have several sources of supply at any given time.

Walk away and NEVER GIVE HIM A SECOND CHANCE. No matter what.

I know how shocked you must be. But realize that she is the next one and she will suffer as you are. It is just a matter of time.

He will find some fault in her too because his narcissism is deeply entrenched. And sadly, as I heard,incurable.

Blue