This helped me alot, use the BUNKER MENALITY, thats what I did, did not allow any physical access to him at all, blocked all his number, then he called from other numbers, blocked them, they always will try to find way to get through to you and are experts at wearing you down!
I broke NC after 62 days the first time, all the hoovering, he would button hole me out in the street, I probaby wasn't at the point I am now either where enough is enough!
NO ACCESS WHAT SO EVER! Bunker mentaility + NC = NO MORE
BULLSHIT, LIES, HEAD GAMES AND SPINNING, very inportant the first couple of months NC! iT WILL HELP!
Hang in there, it gets better!
HUGS & PEACE