why doesnt he just f**k off!

why doesnt he just f**k off!
Posted May 3, 2012 - 10:05am
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I have been leading walks with a group for a few years... and the ex was never a member of this group until we split up and then he joined the group.

Ive had a couple of months of and fu*k me if he isnt taking part in walks now.....

I hate him - he moves across the street. He colonises another social group we were in - which I gave up on cos of him and now this... this guy wants every last bit of my life ........

why doesnt he just f8ck off!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! xx

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Hunter's picture

Why BECAUSE HE'S A

May 9, 2012 - 7:39am — Hunter

Why BECAUSE HE'S A PSYCHOPATH..

STAY NC.. SILENCE = FUCK YOU..

Hunter

tootsgee's picture

you know this has really made

May 9, 2012 - 2:21am — tootsgee

you know this has really made me angry again now! How fucking dare he... its like a low level contact still .... what a fucking loser.... What is the answer ... do I have to move? will he never stop doing this sort of low level shit? x

tootsgee's picture

thank you Sparrow ... thank

May 3, 2012 - 11:03am — tootsgee

thank you Sparrow ... thank you Diedre99... i started to think oh its cos he needs to train for his 'charity' trek .. its cos this... but NORMAL people wouldnt do this ..... its true... the great thing is though ... this made me livid but NOT sad..... now that is progress!!!

Im starting to come back down off the roof now and I will continue to ignore .. I think its best to give that group a miss for a time and go elsewhere dont you think? xx

Deidre99's picture

lol yes, livid is better than

May 3, 2012 - 1:00pm — Deidre99

lol yes, livid is better than sad.

I looked at my healing, once I got out of the fog, as ANYTHING OR ANYONE that impeded my healing, I removed. I removed friends. I removed situations. I left a website I once belonged to. Etc...

You may have to leave the group, IF it impedes your progress to move along on the healing journey. If it doesn't impede it, keep up with the group. If it does, ditch it. That means people, places, clubs, etc.

That would be the litmus test for now. Is seeing him in this group going to thwart your progress to heal? If the answer is yes, (be honest with yourself)...then don't belong to it anymore.

You are doing great, and life's only going to get better. :)

Sparrow's picture

He is relentless. Don't

May 3, 2012 - 10:14am — Sparrow

He is relentless. Don't fret, he will eventually bore of this and move on. Be patient and ignore him and his attempts.

Deidre99's picture

All for attention and

May 3, 2012 - 10:13am — Deidre99

All for attention and control.

It takes time, but eventually...you will look at this, laugh, roll your eyes, and just be rather bored with it. You might even be able to predict his next move.

I'm completely bored by these people. I do marvel however, that they expend so much energy to torture other human beings. But, he can only torture you at this point, with your permission.

Ignore him as best you can. Learn to grow bored with his antics. I know it sucks, but keep staying strong, and don't let him get to you. That's what he wants.

tootsgee's picture

actually I know why.....

May 3, 2012 - 10:10am — tootsgee

actually I know why.....

HIM: "Im a narc - I want - I get - what there are other people in this world???? No way! - I want - I get."

AGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGGHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!!!!!!!!!!

I hope he falls off kilamanjaro!
xx