I have been reading posts and I am absolutely sure I am in the right place.
My situation (short-short version): Married over 25 years. Never saw the manipulation and control. 2 nearly grown kids living at home. We have been left with no financial help. I work part time only and make less than the mortgage. We are devastated. I am a recovering mess. I think he has been poisoning me and brainwashing me for most of our marriage. Ugh. I need to be here and I thank you for being here too.
I am just beginning to have some days where I can function. That's were I am.
I'll try just jumping in here :).