i have not been on here in quite sometime, but that is a great thing! i am strong and i am soo ready to win this battle. i finally got a lawyer and had him served...a year later! but now he decides he is willing to come to an agreement. he does not want to go to court. and neither do i, but i am willing to do whatever it takes to move forward. i am wondering who has a legal separation and/or divorce with children and what i should include. i know hindsight is 20/20 and just don't want to make any mistakes where it concerns my children just out of lack of knowledge. it is amazing the strength we posess when needed and to what extremes they...the wonderful N's will push us to!!! i am blessed beyond belief and want to do right by my children.