This happens every couple of weeks.

Family Member (FM) writes me begging emails can FM please be in my life.
I drew a clear, concise line in the sand with FM that if FM engages with EXNH-Psychopath then I will not have relationship with FM.
FM continues to engage with EXNH and even socializes with his fiance, helps him with his parental responsibilities, has acted as his proxy to abuse me.
It's crazy town and I don't want any part of it.

I am posting because it is SOOOOOOOOO incredibly painful.
EXNH ripped FM from my life. FM allowed it. FM played into his hand, and purposely hurt me, and sabotaged my fight for custody.
I don't feel like I have any choice but to be NC with FM --- If FM betrayed me once (undermining my fight for custody) FM will do it again.

PAINFUL PAINFUL PAINFUL PAINFUL PAINFUL

FM is victim of EXNH - continues to engage with ENXH.
FM helped me get away from him.
FM always hated him and his family.
FM was trash talking me behind my back to EXNH during entire marriage.

WHY??????????????

I am NC with FM. I am tempted to engage FM in some way, and draw that line again.

I wish there was something REDEMPTIVE that FM could do to make it all right.
I even gave FM opportunity to fix it, and to realign with me. But FM continued to choose EXNH????????

Crazytown.