N: I have 2 invites tomorrow. One for golf and one to pop over Joes to see his new house.
Me: The weather forecast for tomorrow says rain
N: I would prefer golf but will decide tomorrow when I see the weather
N: I am popping to Joes later. I don't really want to go, but he really wants me to
Me: Well Joe won't mind if you golf you can go to his another time soon
N: I'm popping to Joes
Me: will I see you later?
N: We are going for something to eat and a few beers
Me: Did you hear the music from the hotel near your house last night, it was so loud it kept me awake ( I live down the street)
N: I'm not sure
Me: Well it ended at midnight, what time did you get back?
N:I didn't, I stayed at Joes
There was no golf. There was no popping to Joes. There was no something to eat and a few beers. There was no sleepover at Joes.
Joe & his g/f ( my g/f too) were at the party in the hotel with....you guessed it....ME.