Is it possible in this day and age for N's to run out of supply?

Is it possible in this day and age for N's to run out of supply?
Posted April 28, 2012 - 11:50pm
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With the advent of the internet, craigslist, on-line dating sites, chatrooms, FB, etc., it seems like there is no limit to N's getting supply. Take for example, my N--

He is turning 64 this year and everything I've read, says that N's grow worse as they age, don't have any close friends, die lonely, broke, etc. My N has worked for the same co. for 40+ years (I wish they would fire him b/c all he does at work is sexting and have phone sex), travels around the world on "business," and while on "business" trips, sleeps indiscriminately with women he meets at bars, hot tubs, night clubs, etc., and also hooks up with women on-line who he then meets in person. He targets women between the ages of 25-40 (roughly the age his adult children) and seems to have no trouble securing supply. He's willn ever pay for sex b/c he wants everything free. Is there no end to supply?

To be clear, I broke off our relationship close to 5 months ago when I learned about his serial affairs and all of his lies. Still hurting badly, even with reading and therapy.

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midnight7's picture

No - Ns will never run out of

April 29, 2012 - 4:55am — midnight7

No - Ns will never run out of supply not least as their preferred supply is primary - anyone at all on the planet that isn't their regular romantic partner. So even if all favourite supply is MIA if a N can bore the pants off a stranger on a street corner they'll do it and get an ego boost - mission accomplished which is why in the end they are truly pathetic. The xN I was with is 67 this year (his preferred age group 30-45) and still trawling back through every woman he's ever know for supply (ex teacher so thousands went past his radar) and the internet makes any N's stalking simple - even personal data such as addresses/phone numbers may be purchased from electoral rolls if not freely available. The xN treated a couple of exGfs appallingly and even though they knew he was a N they still had one night stands with him a decade later - as with all addictions the possibility of relapse remains high if not vigilant. Of course - age will get all Ns in the end thankfully and the xN I knew is running out of supply.
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Night Owl's picture

Maybe erectile dysfunction

April 29, 2012 - 12:52am — Night Owl

Maybe erectile dysfunction will slow them down.... but then again there's always Viagra.

My ex N is still a good looking man (he is 50) but I have seen pictures of him and 15 years ago he was really good looking. He is a heavy smoker and drinker and although he still looks good they are starting to take their toll on him.

I dated the N for 5 years and in the last year he developed breathing problems from smoking. And the heavy drinking is taking their toll on his erection, he can no longer perform when he is drunk.

I pity the woman who will be with him when he gets old and sick. Any time he didn't feel good he got mean, I can see him getting old and just sitting around watching TV and ordering some woman around. Good thing it won't be me!

But back to the topic of running out of supply. Unfortunately there will always be women who are willing to put up with his crap. I always used to laugh at those Lifetime movies and I ended up living one of them. If you would have told me 5 years ago the crap I would put up with ex N I would have never believed you.

sweetpeasarah's picture

NightOwl

April 29, 2012 - 4:04am — sweetpeasarah

I could have written your post!! My ex is just the same! He's 47 now, and still good looking, and was very good looking when younger too. he is a very heavy smoker and drinker, and during my on, off 3 years with him i noticed how much it was taking its toll. He has high blood pressure, high colestrol, breathing problems, and coughs for England in the mornings! Also had troubles 'performing' without help from a pill or two, and if he took these pills it played havoc with his high blood pressure! He would look really ill the following day. He would insist that he only wanted to be intimate when HE wanted to and i wasnt to instigate it, took me a while to realise why, it was because he had to take a 'pill' before things would work!! When i finally dumped him in January having proof of his cheating, he was with a 23yr old, didnt last long...probably cos he couldnt keep up with her in the bedroom lol. With regards to running out of supply, i think eventually the do end up alone. They are basically lazy, and supply has to be convenient, and if they have trouble performing obtaining supply is made even more difficult! Once their older, losing their health and looks, i think the game is up for the losers!
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