HE TREATED YOU!!!

They are in the HONEY MOON faze of the relationship, about
6 months, maybe he will be good!

Its all DOWN THE TUBE after that!

My Narc-Psycho would rarely do anything that would make me
happy after awhile! Remember ITS HIM!!! NOT YOU, SWEET WOMAN!

Try to celebrate that he is gone, and LAUGH about how the poor NEW SUCKER will feel, not that you wish pain on her, but she will find out soon enough!

THE MASK WILL SLIP....HER LIFE WILL BE HELL!

Thank god he isn't in your life anymore, you deserve a
WHOLE MAN and a WHOLE relationship, NO ONE WILL EVER HAVE THAT WITH THEM!

HUGS, Just want your tears to dry!

TW

After my divorce, I watched my EXH (possibly a PD), adopt the habits and interests of whomever he was dating.

If the woman was a biker, he went out and bought a Harley.

One woman had a huge family that would have weekend BBQ's and frequent get togethers, suddenly he was "the family man" whipping up his home style recipes.

Next, to his demise, he met a gold digger! haha. OMG he spent hundreds of thousands of dollars vacationing all over the world.

It was all just a temporary "mask" to catch the woman of his interest at the time.

My point being, they have no core. Nothing lasts, because the only true interest they have is in themselves.

After being married to this man for 13 years and being criticized for everything I did, when I met the PD I was so happy because he didn't put me down. That's how low my standards were.

These guys are cold as ice and could not care less about anyone else. A leopard can not change it's spots. Your ex will always return to who he really is because once he relaxes and doesn't have to keep up the act, the truth is revealed.

Rambling here, sorry!

He's put on an act all his life and will continue to, so don't take it personally. Everyone is there for him to use. Be glad you are gaining knowledge and distancing yourself from him because he will NEVER be satisfied and anyone involved with him will ALWAYS be miserable.

Dear Deestarr, how did you hear about this if you are NC? Stay complete NC. I made sure there was no way on this earth I could hear about the xN, changed all numbers, blocked from new, never searched the internet, dropped everyone of his friends/family as all tainted with his evil/oblivious/addicted, gave strict instructions to everyone in my life that they were never to talk about him, never to give him any information about me. Unless he writes a letter I shall never hear from him and I'm moving soon and he doesn't know the new address. He's dead and I'm not interested in him, anything he does, which poor supply victim he's with now. Ns MOs are all the same but they tweak the agenda to suit the victim - this victim requires a trip to suck her in to hell. Maybe she's paying for it all - I did - every holiday I paid for - so perhaps he's just having a freebie - Ns will take everything they can get for free. All OW end up in hell - she'll be there soon enough or already there and desperately hoping this holiday will help. You are over analysing, obsessing, creating scenarios when you have no idea what the reality is. Let it go, back to the books/working the tools, move on and forward - concentrate on you and you alone. The past is the past - leave it there and grab your new free life by the balls - enjoy.

Honey PLEASE never ever put yourself in a competition with the ow. You are awesome. He just can't appreciate it. These narcs are just looney. They have to have constant new supply. It's nothing to do with you not being good enough.

He will tire of the new one and discard her like old bath water soon enough.

Nothing is ever good enough for narcs.

You are a wonderful woman with strength and deep emotions any normal person can see it.

He is not normal.

It's not you, it's him ( just a waste of space)

Brit x