Every time I miss him I "reflect" on the rude, mean and completely bizarre things he was done or said to me. The evening he ended our engagement over the phone when he was visiting his family, he sent me a request to play some game over our phones. I text him asking why he hadn't contacted me but sent me a game request and he ignored me... I was in full panic mode... I started to call (he would hit ignore) and text BEGGING him to tell me what was wrong. Mostly ignoring me, but sending a text "I am eating" then another about 20 mins later "I am busy" .... This went out for over an hour. Finally I said why are you doing this? He replied about 10 mins later he would call me in 5... Well, 20 mins later he called to end things and said he didn't want to do it over the phone but had to since I "sensed" something was wrong. Hmmmmm go from I love you in the morning to ending it literally 6 hours later.
Does that qualify for the silent treatment? I am not sure since it didn't last that long and he did send me some bullsh*t messages in between his bouts of ignoring me and me begging him to tell me what was wrong.